Jill Carbone
Death Doula – 3 Ways They Can Help You Through Your End of Life Care
When I think of death, I’m filled with a permeating fear that, like birth, death is something I have to process through and experience alone; it is something that I can’t turn back from–and that is terrifying. With birth, we are struck with amnesia or…
Final Arrangements: Writing Letters To Loved Ones For When You’re Gone
There are times in life when love fills our entire being. You look at your loved one and a sense of bliss and adoration overwhelms the senses. There’s a way to capture these beautiful moments: write love letters. It’s the perfect time to capture your…
Mausoleums: 12 Pros And Cons For You To Consider (2020 Edition)
Planning Ahead For Your Family Planning ahead for your funeral can save your family from difficult decisions and unexpected expenses after you’re gone. If you and your family are considering a mausoleum for your own pre-arrangements, read on for some helpful pros and cons to…
When Should You Plan Your Funeral?
It’s never a bad time to connect with loved ones to learn more about the details of their lives, their personal stories, and the experiences that influenced or impacted them. Preplanning an end-of-life celebration is not about death; it’s about life, what matters most, and…
5 Reasons to Listen Attentively to Our Loved One’s Final Wishes
My Loved One Wants to Talk About PrePlanning Their Funeral Let’s admit it: death is not a well-received topic of conversation. It feels sad, overwhelming, and makes many of us anxious. I’d rather sit in a dentist chair or get poked with a needle than…
How To Preplan Your Funeral And 5 Ways To Actually Do It
Our Family Had The Conversation About Pre-planning, Now What? You’ve made the list of tasks, you’ve spoken your intention, your family is on board, and you feel accomplished. Then, nothing. Suddenly, preplanning a funeral tumbles to the bottom of the to-do list. Many good plans…
Preplanning Your Estate: 3 Reasons To Do It Now (2020 Edition)
Empowerment: the process of becoming stronger and more confident, especially in controlling one’s life and claiming one’s rights. I love this word. It feels powerful, liberating, and productive. When we take control of our lives whether it be in regard to our finances, our health,…
Death Over Dinner: 3 Ways To Talk To Your Family About Pre-planning
I Want To Talk To My Family About Pre-planning My Funeral I imagine this is how this conversation begins: “I’m planning my funeral.” Awkward silence and blank stares with heads slightly tilted. “What… Why? Are you sick? Are you dying? What’s wrong?” Eyes become moist…
Inheritance Conflict: 7 Ways To Avoid It Through Preplanning Your Estate
Too often death tears families apart. Money and especially possessions are often the root cause. Dissension can start as soon as the executor of the estate is appointed. Deep-rooted sibling rivalries surface along with resentment. It may be years or even never before these feelings…
Planning For The Future: 6 Questions To Consider As You Pre-plan
How Do I Talk To My Family About Pre-planning? Before sitting down with family to discuss pre-planning your funeral, it’s important to have a plan in mind. This way, you will be able to answer any questions your loved ones pose. The idea of pre-planning…